Well, this post certainly is not an invitation to attend my marriage!!! As and when it gets decided, I'll let you people know personally!! The inspiration to write this post is my MOM!!
I have come to Chennai, (a city which I hate for its weather) and it is not even 24 hours when my Mom decides to assault me with pictures of eligible brides. Fair and beautiful all of them. I am actually spoilt for choices.
What is the right time to get married? I have been grappling with this question for sometime to find an answer. I am a kind of person who will not interfere into another's life unless and until I am specifically asked to. Because, I believe that we are all grown ups and know how to handle things. Whenever I stumble, I learn, whenever I need help, I ask!! Life has been that simple for me and I do not try to make it any more complicated.
So now coming back to the question, when and whom should I get married to?? Well for me some things are very important:
-- Both of us must have love for each other and know each other very well.
-- Trust for each other.
-- Both of us should know to handle and should handle responsibilities.
-- We should be with each other through thick and thin.
-- Both should have the same value systems.
I don't ask for much but I think these are quite an important requisite.
What kinda freaks me out is the fact that this decision that is going to effect my entire life, no wait my, my parents their parents, my children's and possible their children's lives is to be taken in 2 or 3 meetings!!!!!Man this is seems like it is straight out of a Spielberg movie!!!
Hats off to all you happily married couples out there!!!!
Till I find the answers to these questions or find someone I think marriage can wait...
Maybe in this life or the next I'll find.....
